The Absents of Good

Floating Pink 3Clearing our emotional pain is as important in the process of healing the body as clearing the toxins.  Our emotional life has everything to do with our physical health.  Every day the news is full of the awful thing man does to himself and others when the twisting of a soul has reached its limit and finds release as it lashes out on society.

What hurts the heart today.  The world is falling apart.  Babies are shot while they sit in their classroom.  A Crazy, mean, hateful, person picked up a gun and shot us through the heart.  This shooting was not an act against society, it was an act of pure hate.  When aiming to get even with society adults are the target.  To walk into a classroom with the intent to destroy the unlived lives of our babies, this is an act of pure hate.  This man was not shooting at society, his act of murdering what we hold dearest to our hearts, our children, was an act of pure hate intended to elicit the most pain possible.  There is no torture more painful to a community than the mistreatment or murder of our children.

The cruel hate filled heart that could inflict so much pain out into the world would not be affected by our tears or pleads.  The selfish choices made over and again paved the road he traveled bringing him to the day he would be able look into the innocent faces while sending life ending lead into their little bodies.

A wise man once said evil is the absents of good.  We have removed God from our schools so why should we be shocked when all that is good is found missing from the soul of our young adults.  God is good, He is love, to know him is to know true love.  Without God the opposite can only be true.

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Evil is the Absents of Good

Dara Dietz

What do people need to know today.  What hurts the heart today.  The world is falling apart.  Babies are shot while they sit in their classroom.  A Crazy, mean, hateful, person picked up a gun and shot us through the heart.  This shooting was not an act against society, it was an act of pure hate.  When aiming to get even with society adults are the target.  To walk into a classroom with the intent to destroy the unlived lives of our babies, this is an act of pure hate.  This man was not shooting at society, his act of murdering what we hold dearest to our hearts, our children, was an act of pure hate intended to elicit the most pain possible.  There is no torture more painful to a community than the mistreatment or murder of our children.

The cruel hate filled heart that could inflict so much pain out into the world would not be affected by our tears or pleads.  The selfish choices made over and again paved the road he traveled bringing him to the day he would be able look into the innocent faces while sending life ending lead into their little bodies.

A wise man once said evil is the absents of good.  We have removed God from our schools so why should we be shocked when all that is good is found missing from the soul of our young adults.  God is good, He is love, to know him is to know true love.  Without God the opposite can only be true.

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Writing My Story; The Process

There was a process to the writing of my story, Whatever Good May Come“Whatever Good May Come”.  Like most things in life that are worthwhile to do and have there was a price paid.  I’m often asked about this process, the emotional work as well as the physical.

Denise and I began with a series of recorded interviews.  We filled up seventeen 90 minute tapes over many months of conversations.  She would come by once a week and we would talk.  Her questions directed our talks which when transcribed proved to have been complete.  She had such a gentle manner I never felt violated by her questions.  Yet everything was in the transcript.  The entire unvarnished truth of me.

The next step Denise prewrote the chapters using my words from the transcript.  She took over 800 pages of words, tossed out the redundancies, providing direction as to how the story would be written.

The first pre-written chapter consisted of thirteen double spaced pages dealing with the early years of my life.  For me the opening paragraph if a chapter is always the hardest to write.  Once I get my writers feet wet I’m off.

Denise’s prewritten direction refreshed my mind bring back with vivid detail screens and events from my past.  When I wrote I was transported back to an uncomfortable time and place.  Back into the painful, helpless childhood I’d had to endure.  Returning was hard but very healing.  I returned as an adult with the mind and heart of a mature woman.  No longer the helpless child to be used and abused at the whims of the perverted adults in my life.  As an adult I was able to separate myself from the abuse, able to place the blame exactly where it belonged.  As a child I had taken responsibility for the abuse, as an adult I could see it was not my fault.

As soon as I had finished writing my first chapter, Denise did some copy-edit work on it.  She was touching my soul, messing with my words.  I fell apart and cried.  She backed off the copy-edit work, or at least did not show it to me until we were much further along with the writing.  By the time I was finished writing my story it had become such old news to me, I could not believe it would be interesting to anyone else must less of any value for anyone but maybe me.

Denise was then able to do her job without any discomfort for me.  She also had to encourage me that it was a good project.  I remember she said once, I should think of my book as a bowel of rice I’d been eating day after day for nearly four years.  It was old and rancid for me.  This is not how it would be for other people.  Writing my story allowed me to comb through my early life with a fine tooth comb.  I was so familiar with it by the time I was done writing I had to set it down for nearly a year so it could freshen up a bit for me.

Writing my story I  processed thorough my life, learn things about myself and best of all forgave myself.  Once this process is finished the sensitivity to having my words messed with was all but gone.

I felt strongly about the integrity of what I wrote.  It was my story, no one else could tell it but me.  That said, the cutting and slashing that is part of the polishing of a work was not painful by the end of my project.  I was as much a part of the polishing of my work as was Denise.  We did not agree on everything, the final word on what would be included was mine.

My advice for what it is worth is, do your project.  Write your book.  This is a gift you will give to yourself.  After you are done then decide if you want to make it public.

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A Place to Begin Again

I want to take a minute to thank you all for the beautiful cards and warm wishes you sent this holiday season. I wish I had the time to write each of you individually, but sadly, this is something time restraints will not allow. So instead we are sending our very best to you in this letter. I pray it finds each of you blessed and happy.

Life is full of second chances. Our Father in love has filled each minute, hour, day, year, and life time, with opportunities to wipe the present clean from our past mistakes and begin again. Through my own experiences I’ve learned that the fallout from our past mistakes does not have to darken our present joy.

When we learn to embrace all that has made us who we are today, the mistakes and failures of yesterday no longer have the power to annoy. Praise the Lord for the growth and wisdom those experiences have brought to your life. There is no shame in making mistakes. Do not allow the trials and abuses of yesterday to dampen your joy today. Shame is a killer that can only live in the dark recesses of a secret, an unaccepted mistake, a misunderstood intention.

Let go of the past, allow this new day to be your new beginning. Each day offers us the promise of another chance, a free do over for all the mistakes the sun set on only a few hours earlier. The dark of the night has once again covered our mistakes, renewing us with its sleep, enabling us to go forward refreshed.

Seasons come and go each one moving us toward our future. In the Spring we are drawn outside, we look to the mountains covered with the richness of new life, and are drawn to new heights as we feed on the power surrounding us.

The renewing of Spring flows into the activity of the Summer season. This is the time of year we get things done. The Summer is full of useful activity, these are the days of preparation a time when our powers are strong.

All too soon the days begin to cool down, a hint of coldness drifts into the night air. It is then that the wisdom and beauty of the fall burst into color all around us as nature again draws us into her arms. In the fall we discover beauty in death, a sense of completeness that the work of the summer is over and it is time to rest.

Days become shorter as Winter invites us to come away and rest awhile. Buried in the dark night of W inter we find time for reflection, healing and growth. Amid this time of inactivity can be found the perfection of the yearly round of life. In the cold recesses of the W inter Season is found a place to bury the mistakes of the year that is ending, a place to find forgiveness and to learn to forgive.

It’s time for a new year, a new beginning. We are not who we were last year. We are not who we will be next year. We are each on a road that twists and turns us through the experiences of our lives. At some point our roads have crossed and we have shared a few precious minutes. The words of encouragement that have passed between us have meant the world to me. Words mean things, they are all we have and if used correctly they can convey, hope, encouragement, and love. On the other hand when we act rashly and without concern for the feelings of others our words can deeply cut and wound the spirits of those we come in contact with.

The Father has filled our lives with so many places to begin again. It is my prayer that this year will be a new beginning for each of you. That this precious time you have been given will not be wasted, left unimproved and barren. My wish is that each of you will renew with the Spring so your Summer will be fruitful and you Fall full of wisdom and bounty. Then in the Winter your hearts will be warmed as you reflect with satisfaction on a job well done, a life well lived.

This past week I waded through our Membership Files as I sorted the current Members from those who need to renew. So many names, so many memories. I realized how blessed I have been to be in contact with such a special group of Individuals. Just seeing some of your names brought a smile to my lips. A few of you caused me to laugh out loud. I’ve learned so much about life and living since HEAL Marketplace began in 1998.

The truth of Natural Healing is not just about choosing herbs over drugs.

It is really all about “Becoming More”.

  • More tolerant of those who are confused and scared.
  • More accepting of our own failings.
  • More balanced in Mind, Heart and Body.
  • More Trusting of the Care our Heavenly Father has promised to provide.

I hope each one of you will continue down this road with us. We only ask for the opportunity to continue to bless you with our very best efforts. As a result we hope that you will continue to grow in your knowledge of all things Natural as you apply what you learn from us to your life and the world around you.

Best Wishes from all of Us at H.E.A.L. Marketplace

to All Our Wonderful Members

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Light at the end of My Tunnel

Dara Dietz 2016 Having a bad week

So you ask, how was my week, will my computer died, my car is in the shop, my printer’s drum decided to pick this time to die and my desk chair gives me a sinking feeling every time I set in it.  That pretty much sums up this past week.  The Lord has given me plenty of opportunity to learn how to shine under adversity.

Honesty demands I admit to a character flaw, yes, those annoying things that keep one from being perfect.  I don’t do well in a mess.  Confusion drives me crazy.  Clutter sends me up the wall.  I can’t stand messy clutter or messy confusion.   With that in mind I will tell you the NF (Nerve Food) Formula works great.  With all the confusion this past week the only two formulas I was able to remember to get down were my Changease & NF Formula.

I’m very pleased with how well my husband and I handled this week of crisis. Not a single cross word passed between us.  I’m not saying we were in high spirits but we both were able to flow with the tide, doing the next task to the best of our ability.  Becoming unglued is not an answer to any problem and I have learned from experience that losing it is a choice.  Yes, we can choose to hang in there or let go and disintegrate into a pile of mush leaving the crisis for someone else to handle.  Then, of course, complain about the outcome.  I learned a long time ago I don’t make a good victim so I guess I’d better stick around and do it my way.

Crashing computers cause frayed nerves.  We knew it was on its last leg and were working to switch it out with a new system.  Sadly it failed to last long enough for us to make a smooth transition.  My wonderful husband saved the day by adding my old C drive as an additional drive on my new system.  This is allowing me to access all my old files.

The real challenge has been setting up all my programs in a new operating system.  My old computer was an XP I am now working in Windows 8, I must say I’m not impressed.  As in all of life it is best to “not fix it if it isn’t broke”  It has taken the better part of this week to load my programs, adjust settings, and find all my important files.  Today I can say I’m beginning to feel like me again. I’m sure I’ll begin to find things I like about this new system as I continue using it.

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Time To Do It Again

11/09/12

Doing the good stuff is not always easy.  Today Carol and I have begun a journey.  One I hope will take us to a place of better health.  Sixteen years ago I began my healing journey with a handful of herbal capsules for a bladder infection.  Along the way I have made many exciting discoveries about myself and people in general.  One in particular is we humans have a hard time finishing what we begin.

Finishing what we begin is not an easy undertaking.  We get bored with the process or the work on ourselves becomes too hard.  Where is my stick to it ness?  Why do I have such a hard time staying with a good plan?  I did a 40 day juice fast but could not finish and come off well.

Time to do it again.

Today is the first day of my new juice fast.  Since February when I finished 40 days of juice fasting I have not done well for myself.   Old habits and favorite foods I find hard to give up have left their mark on my life.  The time has come to juice fast again with a few modifications.  I plan to eat raw two days a week. This will break up the extended juice fasting hopefully preventing the long recovery time back to regular food.

The raw food will keep my system alkaline while at the same time my digestive system will still be processing solid food.   The most difficult part of my extended juice fast became the process of reintroducing food to my stomach.  After 40 days of consuming only liquids it was several weeks before my stomach could appreciate solid food.  Cooked food was another story altogether.  Consuming anything cooked made me feel like I had poisoned myself.  Nearly six weeks transition was required before by system easily accepted cooked food.

My goal is to find an easier way to get the benefits of an extended juice fast and maybe bypass the extended recovery time.  We shall see.

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DRUG THERAPY

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Drug Therapy

Excerpt from article by Dr. Robbins, Health Through Nutrition

 If you have a headache, the doctor prescribes aspirin. The headache disappears and everyone is happy. No one ever asked the question, “What caused the headache?” Based on the treatment prescribed and the resultant “cure”, we can conclude that the headache was caused by an “aspirin deficiency”.

However, a little research will tell us that aspirin is composed of salicylic acid – an absolute poison to the body, thus an “aspirin deficiency” is out of the question. In fact, any drug on the market, we will find, is composed of chemical toxins, which are poisonous to humans. How then can drugs alleviate symptoms, cure ills, wipe out disease and generally make us feel better if they are poisonous?

To understand how drugs “cure” symptoms, let us look a little deeper into how aspirin takes away a pain.

Did you know that aspirin will relieve any pain in the body, whether it be a headache or a toe ache? The only exception to this is stomach pain. Aspirin will not help stomach pain. Ask the pharmacist how aspirin works, he will tell you that it has some sort of numbing effect over the entire body, so regardless of where the pain is, it is relieved. But isn’t the stomach part of the body? Why doesn’t aspirin take care of stomach pain? He will reply that this is one of the great mysteries of aspirin.

Let’s say you are out on the farm hunting and you get a thorn in your finger. It is quite sore, so you decide to head back to your truck to get some tweezers to take care of the problem. As you pass through the barnyard you step on a nail. Do you still feel the pain of the thorn in your finger; in fact do you even remember it is there? Was it suddenly cured when you stepped on the nail? No, not at all. Then why is the thorn no longer a concern? Simply because your body now has a higher priority – something more life threatening to worry about – the nail in the foot.

Then as you are passing through the barbed wire fence to finally reach your truck, you shoot your toe off with the shotgun (the other foot of course). Are you now aware of the thorn? No. How about the hole in your foot from the rusty nail. I don’t think so. Why not? Once again the body shifted its focus to the most life-threatening situation. There is only x amount of energy in the body. If we create a crisis in one part of the body, energy must be “borrowed” from other parts of the body to cope with the crisis.

Every aspirin (buffered or not) causes a teaspoon worth of bleeding in the stomach.

If you have a headache, which is generally caused by toxic blood from something we’ve eaten which is harmful to us, and you take an aspirin causing internal bleeding, which do you think would be more life threatening? In most cases the internal bleeding. The body must now shift its attention to the higher priority problem (stomach), and the headache disappears. Did the aspirin remove the toxins from the blood stream? Not at all, just created a more life-threatening situation.

If the aspirin does not take away the headache, it simply means that the internal bleeding is not more life threatening than the toxic blood. So now take six aspirin, and a more life threatening situation will take place in the stomach and the headache dissipates.

 Why doesn’t aspirin take care of stomach pain?

If you have stomach pain then your body’s attention is already focused on the stomach. Additional stress there will not force the body to shift its attention elsewhere in the body. Tylenol, however, will alleviate stomach pain because it plays havoc with the liver, causing the body to move its attention from stomach to liver.

Thus all drugs produce symptomatic relief without actually removing the cause.

 

 A drug “cures” your complaint by creating a disease of its own.

If the poison of the drug, whatever drug you want to name, is more life threatening to the body than the symptom for which you took the drug (or the doctor’s prescription for such), then your symptoms will disappear. If the drug is not more life threatening, then it will not produce symptomatic relief and the doctor will prescribe a stronger, more poisonous, more life threatening drug. Now the body will be forced to focus on the drug so that the drug literally doesn’t kill the body. You become symptom free.

Yet the cause of the disease was not eliminated, and true healing did not take place. Since there is no such thing as a drug deficiency, the body simply put the disease process on hold to eliminate the drug. How many children do you know that take antibiotics for infections? The antibiotic stops the symptoms. As soon as the antibiotic is stopped, the infection returns.

It is because the antibiotic does not kill the infection, rather the antibiotic is so toxic to the liver and rest of the body, that the body must wall off, or put on “hold” the infective process to deal with the drug before it kills the body. Once the drug is dealt with, the body will, as soon as it has built up adequate nutrients and energies, resume the cleansing process via the infection. If the taking of the antibiotic was so devitalizing to the body, lowering its frequency, the infection may not return, only a more serious chronic disease at a later date.

One of the great laws of nature is the law of cause and effect.

We do not gain anything without working for it. Diseases are not “caught”, they are earned by not taking care of our bodies. How then can we not stop doing the wrong that made us sick, take a drug and get well? It is the same as the drunk saying, “Sober me up with a pill, but let me keep drinking”. This is Impossible to do. Disease is no exception.

When an anesthetic is administered to knock one out for surgery, the same principle applies. The anesthetic is so poisonous to the body that the body must put itself to sleep to free up the tremendous amount of energy that is used for consciousness. This energy is then utilized to eliminate the toxic anesthetic from the body before it causes death.

Why do you think people are so sick and groggy after surgery? Why do something like 2% of people who undergo surgery die from the anesthetic if it weren’t a poison? Different drugs rob energy from different parts of the body, thus they have various effects or “cure” different symptoms.

The bottom line is that they rob energy from the body and change the body’s priorities to focus on the drug – a more life threatening situation – and the cause is not eliminated. We are actually still sick, just as some must stay on drugs a lifetime to stay symptom free, constantly increasing the dose as they become sicker and sicker. Others are “cured” by the drug and can stop taking it, only to face another more serious disease down the road. If we would just listen to the body when we become ill, and let the illness tell us our symptoms are due to something wrong (wrong diet or life style), and stop doing it, then the illness as well as the need for drugs would be eliminated and a more healthy life would result.

Side-Effects

“Side-effects” which often result when drugs are administered are the body’s effort at eliminating the drug. ie: breaking out in a skin rash – body pushing drug out through skin, getting drowsy – body conserving conscious energy in order to stay alive while eliminating the drug.

The Logic of Drug Therapy

Drug therapy defies all logic when we consider that any drug administered to a healthy person will make him sick, and yet the doctor prescribes these very poisons to a sick person and expects him to get well. How can a body be poisoned back to health?

 

 

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Embracing Experience

affirmation_woman cutWe humans do not value what has not been hard earned.  We look up to those of experience who have “been there”, “done that”; those who somehow survived the worst and appear to have made it through emotionally and physically intact.

Those things that have stuck with me and provide the greatest wisdom were hard learned through tough and sometimes painful experiences.  Nothing good comes easily. Long ago I decided to embrace opportunities to grow instead of running from or being afraid of them.

This decision has changed the way I live.  Looking life straight in the face I am able to deal with life’s little distractions before they become major disasters.  There are no unopened letters setting on my desk.  No unreturned phone calls or errands I have put off because they are unpleasant.   Learning to embrace life with all its ups and downs continues to provide many opportunities to strengthen my emotional and spiritual life.

Knowing my personal limitations and planning my life around what I can do, instead of setting myself up to fail.  Faith and Trust in my Father have taught me to rely on His good judgment for each day’s duties.  Doing, to the best of my ability, what providence has placed in my hands to do each day and then leaving the results with Him.

Accepting my life is in His care simply means nothing is wasted.  The good, the bad, and the ugly of life are all good.  They provide lessons to learn, chances to stretch and grow beyond who I am today.  When I learn a lesson well it simply means I will not have to pass over that road again.

No, I’m not done yet.  There will always be more to learn and places in my life to improve.   The Lord will find a new road with different lessons for me to master.

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