Emotional Healing, My Opinion

We are our Choices

Michael22We are our choices.  Every choice made defines the life.  Life has revealed a truth to me, that there are no BIG days of decision.  No forks in the road ahead.  The only forks I’ve ever seen have been in my life’s rear view mirror.  The little decisions made each day determined in advance how I would respond when life’s larger decisions were pending.  Often I have not even recognized how important the questions were until I was reaping the results of my choices.

The little choices we make each day become habits and habits become a life.  What, when and how we eat. Looking for opportunities to bless others instead of only noticing what is right in front of our nose.  Learn to set yourself up to succeed by knowing yourself well.  Nothing in life is of little importance.

Detoxing the Body

Setting up a good detoxing program is key to any successful healing or cleansing.  Too often a person will set themselves up to fail at cleansing by not doing their homework.  A basic understanding of how the body works will provide the ground work as you clear the waste from your system.

When beginning any healing or detoxing program the benefits will only come if the waste can be removed and healing nutrition brought in. The largest elimination organ is our colon. If this avenue of elimination is not open and producing well all the good you are doing is for naught. The waste will be reabsorbed as it sets in a sluggish backed up bowel waiting to be eliminated from the body.

The healing and detoxing of the body need not be a negative experience. Many people are hesitant to begin a good detox because they cannot afford to be sick or don’t want to feel bad. Detoxing can produce flu like symptoms when the waste that should be eliminated is reabsorbed. Feeling bad is not necessary, when the immune system is supported with proper nutrition and enough Echinacea the waste is neutralized and eliminated, not reabsorbed.

It’s all good. With proper nutritional and emotional support the healing of the body, mind and heart can be an uplifting fulfilling time. Healing is not so much about the diseased condition as it is about unblocking life on every level, while flooding the body, mind, and soul with healing, restorative nutrients. Take the opportunity to get real with yourself. You are a physical, Emotional and Spiritual child of God, as the physical body begins to heal there will be a corresponding clearing of old issues from your emotional and Spiritual life.

Everyone will have their share of pain in this life. The hard times are not here to destroy us, but to enable us to grow. As we choose to meet life’s challenges, we develop real worth and depth of character. When we choose to turn about and squarely face our own personal demons, we inevitably discover how powerful a single choice can be. The power of choice is the gift Jesus died to give each of us. The journey of 1,000 miles begins with one step. The power to overcome on every level and rise above every weakness begins with one choice. When you choose to embrace life’s trials, you are choosing to attend classes designed specifically for you. Now, instead of being a victim, you are choosing to expand and grow psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Emotional Healing, My Opinion

Do Something New

Dara Dietz
2025 is slipping into history.  All the days are nearly used, the time, talent, and resources invested into the year 2025 will now write its history. Was it a good year for you?  Did you do all you had planned?  Are you leaving your mark on history or just allowing the hours, days, and years of your life to dribble into eternity without much thought or concern. It is too easy today to become mindless drifters. This year I challenge you to create something new in your life.  Clear the old junk from a place in your world and build something new.  What do I mean?  A new habit.  A new invention.  A new attitude.  You are the creator of your destiny.  Make something new and fresh out of the new year ahead.  You can do it.  When you make space and create you become someone new and exciting.  You will expand your life into new sensational dimensions.  Just do it, create something new in 2026. Life is full of second chances. Our Father in love has filled each minute, hour, day, year, and life time, with opportunities to wipe the present clean from our past mistakes and begin again. Through my own experiences I’ve learned that the fallout from our past mistakes does not have to darken our present joy. When we learn to embrace all that has made us who we are today, the mistakes and failures of yesterday no longer have the power to annoy. Praise the Lord for the growth and wisdom those experiences have brought to your life. There is no shame in making mistakes. Do not allow the trials and abuses of yesterday to dampen your joy today. Shame is a killer that can only live in the dark recesses of a secret, an unaccepted mistake, a misunderstood intention. Let go of the past, allow this new day to be your new beginning. Each day offers us the promise of another chance, a free do over for all the mistakes the sun set on only a few hours earlier. The dark of the night has once again covered our mistakes, renewing us with its sleep, enabling us to go forward refreshed. Seasons come and go each one moving us toward our future. In the Spring we are drawn outside, we look to the mountains covered with the richness of new life, and are drawn to new heights as we feed on the power surrounding us. The renewing of Spring flows into the activity of the Summer season. This is the time of year we get things done. The Summer is full of useful activity, these are the days of preparation a time when our powers are strong. All too soon the days begin to cool down, a hint of coldness drifts into the night air. It is then that the wisdom and beauty of the fall burst into color all around us as nature again draws us into her arms. In the fall we discover beauty in death, a sense of completeness that the work of the summer is over and it is time to rest. Days become shorter as Winter invites us to come away and rest awhile. Buried in the dark night of W inter we find time for reflection, healing and growth. Amid this time of inactivity can be found the perfection of the yearly round of life. In the cold recesses of the Winter Season is found a place to bury the mistakes of the year that is ending, a place to find forgiveness and to learn to forgive. It’s time for a new year, a new beginning. We are not who we were last year. We are not who we will be next year. We are each on a road that twists and turns us through the experiences of our lives. At some point our roads have crossed and we have shared a few precious minutes. The words of encouragement that have passed between us have meant the world to me. Words mean things, they are all we have and if used correctly they can convey, hope, encouragement, and love. On the other hand when we act rashly and without concern for the feelings of others our words can deeply cut and wound the spirits of those we come in contact with. The Father has filled our lives with so many places to begin again. It is my prayer that this year will be a new beginning for each of you. That this precious time you have been given will not be wasted, left unimproved and barren. My wish is that each of you will renew with the Spring so your Summer will be fruitful and you Fall full of wisdom and bounty. Then in the Winter your hearts will be warmed as you reflect with satisfaction on a job well done, a life well lived. Best Wishes from all of Us at H.E.A.L. Marketplace To All Our Wonderful Members
Emotional Healing, My Opinion

Biggest Family Day of the Year!

Thanksgiving Dinner at homeWe are a week away from the biggest family day of the year.  Life is messy; there is no escaping the joy, tears and drama ahead.  It’s the same every year, you know the routine.  You spend the first five minutes catching up and the next three days remembering why you only do this once a year.  Those of us blessed with family we actually enjoy spending time with can still appreciate the uninvited drama that manages to show up each year.

I’m all for cutting the drama and enjoying a peaceful uneventful holiday season.  So this year let’s see if we can manage both, Thanksgiving and Christmas, without a single trip to the emergency room.  It is possible with a little planning and forethought.

Try following a few common sense suggestions:

Do not overeat.  Enjoy the special holiday dishes. Take smaller portions.  Eat slowly and only until your stomach feels full.  Stuffing your stomach increases the pressure on an already over worked liver and gallbladder, not to mention your entire digestive system.  Over-stuffing the system with food will lead to irritated nerves and short tempers.  Drama, Drama, Drama!  Not to mention the physical complaints of vomiting and or diarrhea, acid reflux, gallbladder attacks, appendicitis, heart attack, gout, sciatica pain, and the list goes on.

img828Meet the Family: Decide this year to steer clear of the old emotional junk.  Every family has them.  The subjects better left alone.  So, leave them alone.  Allow each person to be new to you.  Someone you are just meeting and getting to know.  Try it; you will be amazed to discover how little you actually know about those who mean the most to you.  We are all constantly growing and changing yet we seldom take the time to get reacquainted.

Be Grateful.  For most of us the small group of friends and family who truly know, accept, and believe in us can be counted on one hand, the few truly blessed ones may need to take a shoe off.  You are who you are today because someone believed in you when you were clueless.  Someone lit your fire and kept it burning by little acts of love and caring.  In this life no one makes good alone.  Your gifts and talents are from the Father above, your ability to develop and grow you owe to the special group of family and friends making up the nucleus of your world.  Who you become is your grateful offering of love back to the Father.

Herbal Supports to have on hand for the Holliday Drama

Here is a quick list to pack:

  • Digestive Tonic, L/P Formula: Upset Stomach to Gallbladder Attack
  • LBF #1: Constipation & LBF #2: Vomiting & Diarrhea 
  • Cayenne & Lobelia
  • NF Formula: Emotional Drama, Panic Attack ect..

BF&C Salve/ M&L Salve

Emotional Healing, My Opinion, Spiritual Healing

Golden Thread of HOPE

Orange Easter Lilly with ButterflyToday I want to share a little hope.  This is the golden thread we all live on.  Without hope in something beyond ourselves and this life there is truly no purpose or reason to go on.  If our short span of years in this life is all there is, if this is as good as it gets, why take the ride at all.

No, I don’t believe for a minute that life is only about the short time we are drawing breath here and now.  This life is only the beginning.  Eternity with all the joy and peace of heaven is waiting for each one who truly chooses to be there.  Jesus, the Father, Heaven is not a myth.

This past week and for the next couple of weeks I will stand helplessly by as one of the best friends I’ve known in this life dies.  He has fought a good fight and will lose his battle with prostate cancer in the very near future.  Why is he dying?  Why not do all the great herbal therapies and live? There is life within reach of anyone who chooses to do the work.

He did do the work. Seven years ago we all rejoiced in his victory over cancer.  My friend moved in with us, my husband and myself, shortly after we purchased our current home.  He was a huge blessing, helping renovate and remodel this massive house.  I don’t think we could have done it without his help. Two years ago he received emotionally shattering news.  Unable to emotionally cope with his loss it was not long before his cancer returned.  He has chosen not to do a program this time.  God bless him, he has done all he can.  His heart is broken.

Our life and times are in the Father’s care. All His plans for us are perfect. This side of eternity our vision is imperfect.  We do not see the reality the Father knows so we must trust in His undying love and care for us.  He holds nothing back.  All heaven in vested in the salvation of man.  This knowledge, this reality is the golden thread binding our heart with the infinite heart of God.

Emotional Healing, Getting Started, Herbal Healing

Support for the College Bound

college boundMember Q&A: Maybe you have already covered this topic, but I was wondering what you might recommend for our youngsters who are just off to university.  Bearing in mind their diets normally deteriorate extremely (over here most tend to self-cater) and their alcohol consumption goes through the roof… maybe this might be a topic for a newsletter at some point.   Thinking it through I guess the Superfood should be a mainstay but I wonder if there is something else that isn’t too much trouble for them that would also support?

Answer: Yes, Superfood would be a staple for any child going away to college.  The Lower Bowel Formula #1 to keep the bowels open and moving well.   Digestive Tonic & LBF #2 on hand for; “the Morning after the night before”   (Vomiting & Diarrhea)

The hard living you have described as being part of the college life will present a bill down the road for those who partake largely during their college career.   There are formulas to support the different areas of the body but these will not be much benefit until the person has decided to support themselves with a better lifestyle.  This will come when the physical & emotional bills are presented.  This type of abuse of the human system will require rebuilding.  When we are young and our powers are strong it is hard to be convinced that this is not how it will always be.  We throw our limited physical resources away on such vain things.  Once depleted, damaged or gone they are never fully regained.  Our health is a gift lightly esteemed until it is broken.

As for Tonics that might prove helpful; The Brain Formula will assist by increasing blood flow to the brain.  Supporting the remaining brain cells not yet destroyed.  A good Kelp Blend to support the Thyroid gland which will provide a good usable source of energy without whipping up the adrenals with caffeine.

The NF Formula would be an excellent aid for the emotional pressure in those who tend to lose it when the heat is on.  This is a nerve food formula which supports the emotional health as well as the physical health of the nerve cells.  It is one I would use as needed not on a daily routine unless the person is suffering from an anxiety issue or depression.

Emotional Healing, My Opinion

Happy Birthday to me!

Dara CloseupWow, can I really be %# already. This just can’t be true. My heart still beats inside the body of a young girl. The years have flown in a flash. So much still I’d love to do, so much yet to know about living, loving and being me. I’m just beginning to know who I am and what I really want from this life.

I cannot remember a single day uncolored by the Love of my Heavenly Father. His care has provided comfort and hope when the evil and hurt was all around. He has been my friend and counselor as I have worked to make sense of my early years. Now I know Him as my trusted Friend who has walked every step of this life with me. I have had to make this journey alone, except for Him, but what a great Exception He is.

I want to thank each of you who have shared even a small part of my journey with me and who I have been privileged to share in yours. In sharing I have discovered the only truth of any value in this life. It is only in giving and doing for others that real joy, contentment and healing can be found.

Emotional Healing, Herbal Healing, Women's & Men's Health

Understanding Menopause

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Why do some women suffer so intensely from the hormonal shifts during menopause? 

To answer this question we will need to look at more than the physical system.  It is important to understand the entire process taking place during this “change of life” period.  The cessation of the monthly cycle is only the outward sign of the huge rewiring of the brain occurring on the inside.  The hormonal curtain has been lifted providing a clear view into the inner workings of you.  It is time to make friends with yourself.

During the teenage years the young woman develops the need to nurture a family.  The hormones regulating her monthly cycle also create her yearning for a home and children.   The hormonal curtain lowers between her and her inner self causing her attention to be focused outward on home and family.  This hormonally driven need to create a home and nurture children continues until at menopause the cycle stops, bringing an end to the desire for and ability to have children.

During the preceding ten years also known as perimenopause there is a complete rewiring of the brain.  The hormonal curtain is being lifted for greater and greater periods of time until at menopause it rises never to fall again.

Herbal Suggestions for Female Complaints

How will the lifting and eventual removal of this hormonal curtain affect the woman?

The lifting of this hormonal curtain allows the woman to connect with her inner self again.  We have all heard stories of the wise older woman.  Menopause is a passage from one era of life to another.  The woman is now free to access her creative side, free to focus inward on her own needs.  This is her time to become and do.  All the wisdom collected from her life experiences can now be freely accessed.

The down side to all this connecting with one’s self is the stash of emotional bills often found behind the hormonal curtain.  Issues put off and out of mind will no longer be put aside.  The time has come to deal with your life.  Everything you had swept behind the curtain to deal with at a later time is now staring you straight in the face.  Later is here, the curtain is gone, you can no longer hide from yourself.

The more unfinished emotional business lurking behind the curtain the harder and more symptomatic menopause will be.  Life is giving you an opportunity to finally get it right.  Do the hard work on you and become the woman you always knew you were.  The flip side is not a pretty picture.  That’s why antidepressants were invented.  Refusing to deal with yourself is refusing to live the life you have been given.  If you opt to check out on life they have developed plenty of chemical supports to smooth the way.

Herbal Supports

There are very effective herbal supports to catch those hormonal swings, easing the passage through menopause.  The first and balancing herbal support is the Female Formula.  This formula will support in stopping the hot flashes, night sweats, and emotional free fall which can be a part of menopause.  At some point in the process the Female Formula may not be enough.  The Changease Formula added to the Female Formula routine will provide the increased hormonal support needed.

Many women report heart palpitation which can be supported herbally as follows:

  • NF Formula
  • General Nervine
  • Cayenne extract
  • Hawthorne extract

HEAL Member Testimony

My Peri-menopause journey has included what I have termed “panic attacks”.  I will wake up feeling dizzy and light-headed and my heart will be racing like a freight train.  It is a frightening thing to go through on a regular and consistent basis.  However, the good news is I have them mostly under control now.  How, you ask?  I found some herbal supports that have been a wonder to me and I don’t know what I would do without them.

Every night I make a cup of hot tea which I call my “hot totty”:

  • 3 droppersful of Cayenne (most people have to work up to that gradually)
  • 6 droppersful of Hawthorne

Difficulty Sleeping

I find 2 droppersful each of the General Nervine and NF formulas help with my difficulty in sleeping and staying asleep at night.  These combinations work for me almost all the time.

The only exception is when I have overdone the caffeine or sugar or a combination of both.

When I wake up with palpitations I do a Cayenne/Hawthorne mixture until it stops.  Usually I only have to do that once and it quits, but if I have been particularly bad that day, it may mean I have to repeat the mixture a time or two more.  I do this every five minutes until relieved. –G.H. Rutherfordton NC

Emotional Healing, Getting Started, Herbal Healing, My Opinion

Letter to a Member

It is very hard for me to be the firm yet caring healer Dr. Christopher was ascribed to be.  Hearing of the distress you have endured while doing a liver flush I find it hard to form the words to strengthen you on your healing journey.  This is an injustice to you and I must find a way to share the knowledge I have come to understand with firmness and care.  Dr. Christopher was once accredited with the saying, “a cleaner cup for the next dose”, in reference to a patient clearing the stomach while doing a flush.

Distance makes this very difficult.   You cannot see the tears in my eyes or understand the compassion that fills my heart when the struggles encountered during the cleansing process are shared with me.  If I could have been present with the knowledge I’ve gained over the years much of the discomfort might have been alleviated.

This is not the role the Father has given me.  My role is to support, teach, and encourage from a distance.  With this understanding I must find a way to apply a firm hand while still showing compassion for the discomfort that will be a part of any cleansing program.

You had an extremely disagreeable time doing the liver flush.   The extended period of nausea could have been abrogated to a large degree with a little herbal experience.  Knowing how to address a cleansing crisis can make all the difference.  When dealing with nausea during a liver flush I would suggest 1 tsp. Digestive Tonic and 1 tsp. LP formula mixed together in an ounce or two of water.  Knock this mix back. (Drink all in one swallow, DO NOT SIP)  This will settle any system where the bowels are open and working well.

Understanding why the nausea happens in the first place comes with experience.  Since we know your bowels are working fine.  I would suggest the cause of your nausea was from the rapid detoxing backing up into the stomach.  This is quickly reversed by using the method mentioned above.  It is a matter of turning the detoxing flow around and sending the waste out through the bowel.

Yes, I can agree that drinking 8 to 16 ounces of oil is extremely unpleasant.  Yes, liver flushing will create a bit of drama.  That said, everything you have shared with me says you need to do more liver flushing.  The drama you have experienced is not a negative back lash but a strong positive reaction that needs to be processed through to the end.   Your body is doing exactly what you have asked it to do.  The detoxing process was powerful when you did your liver flush.  As Dr. Christopher says, you created “a cleaner cup for the next dose.”

Cleansing & Flushing, Emotional Healing, Herbal Healing

Fear of Liver Flushing

BadBreath-183x253Over the years many members have expressed a reluctance to do the liver flushing part of the cleansing programs.  The common excuses have been:

  • “I can’t get the oil down.”
  • “I already feel so bad; I don’t want to feel worse.”
  • “I can’t afford to take off time from work if I get sick.”
  • “Way too much work. There must be an easier way to get well.”

Everyone underestimates the power of the Liver Cleanse.  Failure to do all the cleansing programs rigorously and repeatedly can cause you to NOT GET WELL.  Members believe they are on the Incurables program, yet they are not regularly flushing their livers.  They fail to understand how critical it is to repeatedly clear the waste from the liver.

We would all like to be handed some herbs in a bottle that will reverse, in a day or a weekend, all the damage, heal our diseases, and fix 30 years of unconscious living.  There is no magic herb.

No Back Lash

The truth is there is no back lash to doing a liver flush.  Cleansing the liver is simply flushing the excess waste from the liver into the bowel for elimination from the body.  The liver is our internal vacuum cleaner; it is the organ all the waste must process through.  Clearing a major or minor issue can cause this filtering organ to become gummed up, unable to properly function.

Doing an ELF (Emergency Liver Flush) will not cause your issues to become worse or create more discomfort in the body.  Liver flushing will greatly reduce the discomfort regardless the reason.  Flushing the liver allows this mighty internal vacuum to begin pulling waste from every corner of the body and can break up congestion, clear hives and break-outs… as quickly as several hours.

The Healing Crisis

Any healing crisis will be brought on when the liver is too over loaded and unable to process waste out through normal channels. This is when doing an ELF would be most beneficial.  Let’s look at a common issue.  A body is going along doing what it does every other day when suddenly out of the blue hives develop.  Large patches of hives covering the arms, legs, tummy and back.   Why?  Nothing was different today than yesterday.

The day may appear ordinary on the outside but on the inside the liver has become so congested it can no longer process waste properly.  When this happens the liver looks toward the skin as another avenue for waste removal.  The skin is not able to handle such toxicity and quickly breaks down.

Other issues that can occur are a buildup of congestion around the body over injured or weakened areas.  I discovered when my liver is backed up the pain in my knee returns.   Applying BF&C salve over the affected area is an excellent healing support but will only go so far in clearing this issue.  Failing to flush the liver will prevent the congestion from clearing and the issue will not heal.

Flushing to Heal Damaged Joint

Over the past month or so my younger brother has been working on trying to clear the pain from his thumb joint.  He works in construction which takes a toll on the hands.  I’d sent him some BF&C Salve and Extract which he was using.  I’d expected the issue to clear quickly but it was dragging on.  Finally I suggested he do a liver flush.  Within a day or two of his flush he called to share that his thumb was completely healed.  He had continued to use the BF&C Salve over the area and had not put the two together.  When brought to his attention he realized the pain had cleared immediately following flushing the liver.

Disease or injury in any form comes down to blockage or congestion.  Clearing this blockage or congestion from the body is the only true healing.  A body cannot be poisoned back to health.  Massive amounts of nutrition for rebuilding a broken down system along with repeated flushing of the eliminative organs is how to truly be well.

Emotional Healing, Getting Started, Herbal Healing

Supporting the Elderly

Many of our members have found themselves in the position of caring for an elderly parent.  A common question I am asked is: What type of Nutritional Support program should be established for the elderly?

This depends to a large degree on their state of health.  An Elderly person over the age of Seventy-Five with no major issues would benefit from a strong nutritional support program.  The areas to target will depend on the individual.  Superfood being an overall nutritional drink is an excellent way to begin every day.  I’d also suggest daily use of the BF&C Formula as it is high in calcium and minerals which support the Bones, Flesh & Cartilage.

Elderly Parent with Terminal Condition

When dealing with a terminal condition in the elderly our goal is to provide a good quality of life.  The terminal condition is rarely cleared in the elderly.  That said, years of quality living can be added through the herbal supports and cleansing programs.  Our aim should be to establish a program where the individual can be nutritionally supported and yet still enjoy the day to day lifestyle they desire.

If your parent wishes to do the incurables program and can participate in the process then I say go for it for as long and as hard as they wish.  At such a late date it is nearly impossible to completely wipe out years of bad living but emotional and physical strength can be gained.  Their last days can be clear and cognitive.  There is no need for the mind to leave first.  In nature there are powerful herbal supports for keeping the mind bright and clear, HEAL’s “Brain Formula” is an excellent combination of these herbal supports.